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A MOTHER'S LAST HUG
My experience happened in 1993 shortly after my
mother passed away from complications due to
diabetes.
She had surgery to remove her right leg
as it had become infected from a previous
surgery to unclog one of her veins. My mother
went into a coma right after her surgery so
therefore she was placed in I.C.U. My father,
brothers and sisters ( there are 9 of us) would
stay in the waiting room all day and night.
One
night my family convinced me to go home and get
some rest because when my mom came out of her
coma and was transferred to a regular room I,
being the youngest and with no children of my
own,would be the one to stay with her.
I finally
agreed and went to go say bye to my mother and
give her a hug.
I laid my head on her chest and
told her I loved her and would return the next
morning. My mom actually woke up from her coma
and tried to give me a hug (I should say that
her arms were tied down because the doctors were
afraid she would wake up and try to pull her
tubes out) but she couldn't. I guess the nurses
saw their monitors because they came rushing in
and told me to leave, I wasn't able to get my
mom's hug. So, I went home but when I got home
there was a message from my sister for me to go
back, my mom was having trouble breathing and
her blood pressure was way below normal.
Needless to say my mom passed away that night
and I didn't get my hug.
About 2 or 3 months later I was laying down in
my bed on my side and I was missing my mom VERY
MUCH and started to remember how she tried to
hug me and couldn't, I was crying so hard that I
could hardly breath, when all of the sudden I
felt this warmth all the way down my back, like
when you're laying down with someone spoon
style, and then I started to smell fresh tortillas
(my mom was always making them and to this day I
associate the smell with her) I guess I should
say that this was around 3 or 4 in the morning
and nobody would be making tortillas at that
time of night. And then ever so gently I felt her
arms wrap around me and give me the hug that she
was not able to give me at the hospital. As soon
as I felt my mother's arms ( I know they were
hers) I stopped crying and I felt a peace come
over me.
Thank you, mommy,for giving me one last hug!
Submitted From: Nilda, TX, USA
Contact me here: nildaanngonzales@yahoo.com