For the last 15 years, I've worked in the kitchen at a
local
university. One of the guys that was there when I started was Dan,
he had already been working there for over 35 years.
Dan was a big
gruff guy, kind of intimidating, but when you got to know him you
discovered that he had a huge heart. It was like someone said at his
funeral, he was a grizzly bear until you got to know him, then you
realized he was really a teddy bear.
Working there was his life, he
started when he was 15 and I think it was the only job he ever had.
I use to joke with him that when he died we were going to bury him
out back under the big tree.
Anyway about five years ago Dan died of
cancer. We all knew it was coming but we still couldn't believe
it. Although he was much older than me and we weren't
really "friends" his death hit me hard.
After Dan died, I use to get the feeling that someone was watching
me. When it was slow, out of the corner of my eye, I could almost
see him there, with his arms folded on the counter (the counter and
window are about chest high) leaning through the window wanting to
talk to me. So I started talking to him, telling him good morning
and teasing him like in the old days, whenever I felt him around.
A
couple of years after he died I had to transfer to another area of
the kitchen, although I was still on the morning shift, 5am, dark and
early. Co-workers came and went and now there's not too many people
around who still remember Dan.
I have a co-worker now, Mark, who has
been there about six months who was asking me a while back if the
place was haunted. Mark literally lives out in the middle of nowhere. Mark lives on a ranch he inherited from his family, he has no
wife, children, girlfriends, pets, or farm animals and is miles from
the nearest neighbor.
Mark said "You know, I'm used to being alone, I
live out in the middle of nowhere and I'm not freaked out by it at all,
but when I come in here in the morning, it feels like someone is
here, like I'm not alone." I confirmed his suspicions and told him
about Dan, I was actually kind of relieved that he had verified what
I had been thinking for years.
The funny thing is around the same time we had that conversation I
had an incident with Dan.
I was getting pans out for my set up, they
were on the top shelf, and putting them on my cart when it felt like
someone flicked the bottom of the pocket on my chef jacket and my pen
and thermometer came flying out and landed on the floor. Both of
these items have clips on them, so although they occasionally fall
out when you are bending over, they don't fall out when you are
standing up. Additionally, I physically felt someone flick the
bottom of my pocket. So I said, "Very funny Dan, that was cute!"
Immediately I felt Dan laughing, it was the strangest sensation, it
was such a joke to him.
That was Dan, no one laughed at his jokes
louder than he did!
I have to admit though, I do like it when he
stops by to visit. |