My grandmother had a massive stroke in late August
of this year and died in mid-September due to
severe brain damage. This tragedy hit us like a
speeding train as the events happened so quickly
that we hardly had enough time to digest everything.
My uncle called my house at around 6am that
morning to inform us that the hospital had called
to say that my grandma had passed. When we arrived
at the hospital, the nurses told us that she had
passed at around 5:30am. About a week after the
funeral, my parents brought my grandfather groceries when he told them that he speculated my
grandmother had died earlier than the hospital had
indicated.
During the morning of her death, my
grandfather had gotten up to use the bathroom at
around 4:30am. When he returned to his bedroom,
through the crack of his doorway he saw a figure
dressed in what resembled my grandmother's pajamas
crawl into bed the way she used to do. He thought,
"Isn't she supposed to be in the hospital?" When
he entered the room, the figure was gone and he
crawled back into bed. He couldn't go back to
sleep afterwards as the incident had fully woken
him up. He was still in his bed thinking about the
incident when the phone call came from the
hospital. What was strange was that there was
another incident at my aunt's (grandma's daughter)
household at around 4:30am!
My aunt had woken up
to hear my 5 year old cousin screaming from his
bedroom. When she entered his room, he was
evidently talking or rather screaming, "Grandma,
don't go!" in his sleep. Thinking my cousin was
having a bad dream, my aunt woke him up to calm
him down. He told her that grandma was leaving and
she came to say bye. Thinking it was his
imagination, my aunt brushed it off. At that
point, pretty much everyone in her house was up.
Soon my mom called her about my grandma, and she
too rushed to the hospital. Usually, either a
relative or myself would spend the night at the
hospital to keep an eye out, but for some reason
no one stayed on this day.
The nurses who spoke
with us said that there was "probably" a nurse by
my grandma's side when she passed. That means,
they're not entirely sure either. But if in fact
she did pass at 4:30am, they we're glad that she
found her way home.
My brother and I were still awake when we received
the call that morning as he was playing video
games and I had been up all night doing my paper.
Sometimes we wonder if we would've seen our
grandmother if we had been sleeping.
Thanks for
reading.
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